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An emotionally abusive relationship is more difficult to diagnose than a physically abusive relationship quite simply because the latter doesn’t have physically apparent symptoms. In an emotionally abusive relationship symptoms could and often slowly creep in to your relationship causing you to adjust to increasing abuse without often realizing it. This is why it’s very important to pay attention to abuse signs if you suspect you’re in wife/husband abuse.

An emotionally abusive partner has one objective, whether you know it or not. And that is to submit you into fullfilling their wants and needs. They might do this, causing much harm, without being aware of it.

If you find yourself wondering whether you’re in an emotionally abusive relationship, take a moment and reflect on these common scenarios:

• You don’t feel you can freely express yourself with your partner.
• Your partner insanuated self harm if you end the relationship.
• Your partner monitors your communication activities for example your emails and text messages
• Your partner prevents you from going out on your own and might claim that this is for your own safety and security.
• No matter who’s around, your partner can be overly critical to you.
• In a relationship abuse, it’s not uncommon for you to lose your confidence and self esteem.

These are just a few pointers on what might happen in an emotionally abusive relationship and are by no means and extensive list. If you’re seeing abuse signs, and have reasons to believe you’re in such a relationship, get help fast. If you don’t take immediate action there will be a risk of the relationship escalating to the physically abusive and ending up in bodily harm. Even if doesn’t escalate as such, be aware that emotionally abusive relationships can and will lead to stress, depression, post traumatic disorder and other disruptive problems.

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Many children all over the country may have experienced the horror of having to deal with a father who is abusive emotionally. This is maybe the most common occurrence of emotional abuse but this is certainly not the only one. Hundreds and thousands of people have psychological scars caused by a parent, a friend, a sibling or even a spouse being abusive emotionally and these scars are not ones which are easy to heal. Many are hesitant to tell others about a loved one who is abusive emotionally mainly out of fear but also because they think about the stigma the loved one would have to undergo if their true nature is known to the public. Thus a huge number of cases concerning people who are abusive emotionally are not revealed and thus the problem continues to persist in the society.

Covering up or hiding an individual who is abusive emotionally will not bring about a solution to the problem. On the contrary the problem could steadily worsen and could lead to tragic events like suicides or even murders. People and especially children who are subjected to emotional abuse might in turn become individuals who are abusive emotionally and thus the vicious cycle would continue if no solution is given to the problem.

Counseling is one common solution to the problem and in the case of a father who happens to be abusive emotionally, family counseling is almost always recommended. Professional help is needed to assist an individual in overcoming an abusive personality and although the loved ones of the abusive individual could help him/her to some extent, it is highly improbable that unqualified persons could help an  individual who is abusive emotionally to successfully overcome his/her abusive nature. Guidance and help in handling such problems can be easily found as there are numerous qualified counselors and establishments across the country to help individuals who are abusive emotionally.

An individual who is  abusive emotionally can be identified relatively easily. Usually this type of person tries very hard to control you, criticizes and humiliates you for no good reason, threatens to get violent physically by breaking or smashing things and threatens to leave you if you do not follow his or her advice. The influence of a person who is emotionally abusive could leave you with low self confidence, low enthusiasm and could even have a disastrous impact on your physical health and thus emotional abuse is a problem that is best dealt with at the earliest stage possible.

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