How To Win Him Back

She’s currently out of your life, but you obviously want her back into it. If you need to know how to win her back then look no further than psychological mind games to help you on your way. Some would say using these tactics is borderline immoral. Their opinions don’t count when it comes to getting her back.

Most people are blind to it but we are manipulated almost every day by psychological tactics. Governments, employers, even our friends and partners. Take the employee of the month competition. You don’t win anything other than bragging right but the overall production goes up.

She returns your call without you even asking
Most of us like to receive letters through the post, as long as they aren’t demands for payment that is! So you send her a letter telling her how good things are for you right now. And you also say you want to thank her.

This note she received will raise her curiosity levels and also a bit of pride will kick in. She gets curios about the “thank you” bit, but then the pride takes over when she thinks she must have done something good. She will be curious enough to call you. She needs to know why you would thank her. Of course the reason you say is that the split has down you the world of good.

The only reason for sending the letter is to make her call you back. You can play this so she actually thinks you got back together because she called you. After all, you never once asked her to call you in the letter. The fact is the letter weaved its magic and she did as expected, she called you back.

You can get hold of the exact letter to send later. I’ll show you where. And some other tricks like this.

Play on her good memories
We all have treasured memories. You can exploit these memories to your advantage. You can use her favourite food, or smell. Or even her fav song.

If she ever comes to your place or calls you (after receiving the letter!). You have the song on in the background just loud enough for her subconscious mind to hear it. Her mind will start to think you when she thinks about or hears that song because it was on in the background of your phone conversation. Linking her fav song with you then transfers some of the good stuff she feels about the song to you.

Curious jealousy
Get your self out with some friends but make sure you are seen to be having a great time. More importantly try to wangle it so your ex knows you were out having fun.

As long as you aren’t out on a one to one date, which will probably enrage her, you will raise a slight feeling of jealousy in her. She definitely doesn’t expect you to be moving on so quick after the breakup. If it works right she starts to feel that it should be you & her out and not you & your friends.

Those are just a few of the many psychological mind games you can use to win her back. Some people may frown on them but it’s not like you are going to hypnotise her and steal her away. But you can’t just jump in and use these tactics without an overall plan.

You need to be using them as part of an overall master plan to win her back. You can screw the whole game up without a system to follow.

You can find out what I think are the best couple of all round systems that will show you exactly how to win her back at my website …

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